Honestly I’m shocked that I’d have to explain or defend this in the circles I run in around here… But it is what it is I suppose.
I’m heterosexual, and I’m aware that I benefit from that privilege, and I’m aware that non-straight people making fun of me is not threatening me. But ffs, pick insults that aren’t just stolen from the patriarchy that degrade women to their reproductive organs. You can make fun of straight people without being sexist, use your imaginations.
You’re not smashing heterosexism when you call straight women dick-riders guys. You’re enforcing those institutions, and you are being sexist. This is fucking feminism 101 material here.